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Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Wed Jan 08, 2020 9:05 am

Very few people who use dating sites consider them only for online communication. Most users need them to find someone for real dating. So, after an online dating stage, sooner or later, people start thinking about meeting in real life. And even if everything has been perfect and smooth and you have a great time via online chat, it doesn’t mean yet that you shouldn’t forget about safety measures. I don’t doubt the online dating safety, but it’s better to be safe than sorry. So, when taking a decision to move from online to real dating, you need to prepare for the first date well and thoroughly.
1. Make it formal
Even if you have been chatting online for many months, and you know probably everything about this person, including many moments of life that people usually do not share at once, you still should not rush the events, no matter how hard you want to make a huge step forward. Your first non-virtual date should be formal, no exclusions. Choose a crowded place for the first date, for example, a restaurant, cinema, exhibition, or agree to meet in a park and spend time there. Do not invite a person to your home nor accept an invitation to visit her house.
2. Inform your friends where you are going
I know that it may seem like too much for just a date, but you are going to meet a person you have never seen in real life. And informing a friend that you are going for a date with an online match is an absolutely right decision. Besides, most dating sites recommend to do it.
3. Leave if you feel uncomfortable
Your real date may significantly differ from the online ones that you had before. So, if you see that your virtual partner is not the person you know so well online, you’d better end this date. Not all online dates should go real. Sometimes, it’s better to leave things as they are and continue communication online.
4. Avoid alcohol
Do not drink alcohol on the first date. Even if you feel a bit nervous and you know that a little alcohol will help you to relax and calm down. I still recommend you to avoid drinking because you may either create a wrong image of yourself and spoil the date anyways or simply make mistakes.
So, how safe is online dating? I’d say that online dating is 100% safe in case you do not neglect the basic rules which work not only for virtual dating but also for the real-world one. Do not rush events, take your time, avoid conversations about money, do not send or buy gifts on request, and do not share personal things about you unless you are sure you know a person well enough.
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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Thu Mar 26, 2020 10:03 pm

Yes, it is safe. It is important to select high-quality sites, this partially guarantees successful meetings in reality. I usually read reviews on a site like this to study information about a service before using it. Of course, in a personal meeting, a lot depends on the girl, but my whole experience was completely safe.
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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Thu Aug 27, 2020 7:01 am

I think yes) I personally tried only once and I was lucky, I did not meet a maniac, etc.)
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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Thu Aug 27, 2020 7:04 am

Your question can be answered one of two ways.

A. Websites in general are as safe as the person visiting. If you’re visiting a website and wildly clicking on links with little thought, you can easily and quickly find yourself in some trouble. Ads pop up with little to no warning, rogue links appear here and there, and if you’re not paying attention you can easily download malware/spyware onto your machine.
With an up-to-date fully capable antivirus you can minimize your exposure to these things. You’ll also want to perform virus scans at least once every 2 days, but daily is even better. Next to that you’ll want to go through your computer and remove any unknown or foreign software.

B. Most users on dating sites are just like you and me. They’re honest (enough) individuals looking for a connection with another human being. Sprinkled into that large group is a significantly smaller group of individuals who are are users with malice intent. Users who want to steal your personal information, kidnap you, and on from there. But again, we’re talking about a few people in a very large group.
How do you protect yourself? For starters you take it slow. When you start talking to someone, take the time to read their profile, check their pictures and ask yourself “are these all the same person?” Ask yourself if their profile matches their pictures.
I met a girl the other day who said she loved art but of the 21 pictures, none were of art or even artistic. I didn’t even see a paintbrush. When I inquired, she sent me a link her her Deviant page.
Which brings me to my next point, ask for a social networking page to vouch the person is really who you’re talking to.

But seriously, take things slow and take your time. Watch what you’re clicking and question who you’re talking to. When it comes to meeting, meet in a public place.
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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Thu Aug 27, 2020 7:06 am

Seriously, I don't understand you, why have a relationship at all?
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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Thu Aug 27, 2020 7:08 am

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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Fri Aug 28, 2020 7:52 am

I thought that it was unreal. But because of the quarantine due to COVID 19, many people started to talk and date online. For example, I found an interesting thing when I browsed this site. There are so many girls and women that want serious relationships. I got acquainted with my beautiful girlfriend on that amazing site. I recommend trying your luck, and I am sure you will find the girl of your dream.
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Re: Are dating sites safe for real meetings?

Tue Sep 08, 2020 4:58 pm

Well kind of. It depends on the website. Tinder and other alike a pretty much safe if we don't takes bots into accounts. But those which promise you Asian and Ukrainian wife are scam. Give a try to this and settle down

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