Hey all, so i have spend quite a few dollars on getting my vip level (12) and i had a friend who joined the game, so we thought we would start over on a fresh new server to play there and make things a bit easier.

But i have no vip level on this new server, is it so posed to work like that? I find it a bit stupid i that is the case

Yes. VIP does not go to the next account you open.
You put money on an account, it stays on that account. That's how it works.
All servers are the same and have the same features, so leaving your VIP account isn't such a good idea. The only advantage to jumping on a new server is for the achievement; 1st to reach lvl100 on your server!