Well let me just clarify on my use of retarded so no one is offended. By no means was the word used to talk about anyone with a disability or a handicap. I have always used the word to show disgust on something that i find incredibly stupid to call some with a handicap or disability "retarded" i would find incredibly insulting because of what the word means to me. We have butchered many of our words i mean gay used to mean joy, happiness now its used to describe people that participate in odd sexual practices. Same with the word cool it used to mean not hot now it means a show admiration or what not "thats cool man". Hopefully that clears it up.